Wednesday, May 12, 2010

5-12-2010

This blog is for you to keep up on our mom's condition without her house getting 20 calls a day. Rest is often difficult for her and ringing phones don't help. Heather, Brandy and Bobbi will make efforts to update this blog frequently so everyone who wants to can stay in the loop.

So this all started with mom having a lot of abdominal pain and nausea around the beginning of April. She went to the doctor because it wasn't going away. The blood tests showed her liver was stressed. These symptoms often go along with gal stones so they did an ultrasound. They found her liver was quite enlarged and had lots of lesions in various sizes. Ultrasounds are not specific enough to say what the lesions were so she got a CT scan. It showed innumerable tumors in varying sizes scattered throughout her liver. It appears that these cancer cells came from someplace else because they are scattered through the liver, like they got stuck in several places along the process of the liver filtering her blood.

She had a liver biopsy Thursday, April 22nd. Results on Monday from her doctor said cancer and she was referred to an oncology specialist at Northwest Cancer Care in Spokane. She saw Dr. Nichols on Wednesday, April 28th.

The biopsy on those tumors has diagnosed her with adenocarcinoma, which is a pretty generic diagnosis and still does not point to a specific place in her body. Adenocarcinoma means "a cancer that starts inside a gland." There are glands in many areas of the body (for example, breast, lung, uterus, bowel, stomach), and quite often a cancer in an organ begins inside a gland within that organ. Glands are particularly likely to develop a cancer for two main reasons. First, glands are subjected to influences from the outside environment (for example, cigarette smoke affects the glands in the lungs) and also from the inside environment (for example, glands in the breast and the uterus are under the influence of the body's hormones). Second, the cells in glands multiply very frequently, so that faults in their growth control may appear more quickly than in other tissues. Hence adeno-carcinomas are relatively common type of cancer. (What You Really Need to Know about Cancer, p. 327)

Many tests have not shown where the primary tumor is. The doctor says it may be tiny and not causing any trouble. They may find it at some point or not. Because the doctor is unable to find the primary point of the cancer, she is not eligible for a liver transplant.

Right now the priority is her liver. She has had 2 CT scans less than 2 weeks apart and the tumors have visibly increased in size. She will begin chemotherapy (May 6) in hopes of decreasing the size of the tumors to extend her life and shrink the size of her liver making her more comfortable. She has chemotherapy once a week for three weeks and then one week off. Initially, she plans to go through 2 sessions of chemo and then the doctor will do further tests to see if the tumors in her liver have gotten smaller.

We have all (mom, dad, Heather, Brandy and Bobbi) visited with mom's doctor and asked a lot of questions. The bottom line is that her condition is not curable. She will die of cancer or complications from the cancer. We do not know how long she has left. Everything depends on her body's response to the chemotherapy. If chemo helps, the tumors may decrease in size to the point that they can locally treat specific tumors by surgery and may give her more time.

Mom is struggling everyday with pain. Because her liver is so enlarged it pushes on her stomach and makes it difficult to eat and drink fluids. Her pain medication makes life difficult because she can't drive, and the meds make her tired so she doesn't like to take too much. She is still working and plans to work as long as she can because "what else would I do except sit home all day being bored." Her office is being very supportive and patient as she is able to do less work or does the work but much slower than in the past.

We appreciate all of your love and support and especially your prayers and fasting.

If you want to come see our mom, please contact Brandy by cell phone 509-981-5950 or email at brandypoulsen@yahoo.com. She is mom's social coordinator. That may sound funny or excessive, but too bad. She's our mom. Since Brandy lives so close, she knows daily how mom is feeling and can make decisions about visitors and the number of people who can visit at one time. Mom tires quickly and needs to rest when she can. Please come for the day or plan to stay at a motel/hotel when you visit so her time can be spent visiting instead of cooking and cleaning for guests. Please respect this arrangement.

We plan to organize a get together once a month so that friends that don’t live in Cheney can come and spend some time with mom during a weekend. They will be potluck in nature and at Brandy’s house. The details will be posted to this blog.

Please feel free to make comments or drop a note to mom. We will see that she gets each one!

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14 comments:

Anita said...

Thank you so much for setting up this blog. As we want to respect your time and wishes, this serves as a great way to keep aprised of Cheryl's progress. We pray for your whole family that you may have continued strength and courage as the days comes. Love you all....AnaMaria

john McGraw said...

I LOVE U CHERYL and am PRAYING for u. GOD bless u and yours. JOHN

Cristina Kennington said...

What a wonderful idea you had girls! No need to apologize: this is taking care of your mom, while still letting her know about all the love and support from people around her. The girls have added her health to their daily prayer routine. Right after "please let tomorrow be a very beautiful sunny day" :) What can I say? These are northwest children! Give both your parents our love.

Cristina Kennington

Anonymous said...

Please let Cheryl know she is in our heart and prayers!


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Marcus Noll said...

It would be really special to post pictures of activities that Cheryl was involved in with the youth of the Graham 1st Ward. Just thinking of those times makes me smile. This was a very special part of my life and she influenced many others around her in a very positive way. Cheryl was a huge part of my growth as a teenager. My family has you in our prayers.

John McGraw said...

Cheryl I love you and have been praying for God to take your pain away. Please keep your faith, and know that we don't always know what Gods plan is. Have faith that it is for the best for everyone. I am still trying to find the what leasen we all are supost to learn from this, I will keep looking and praying. May God bless you and your childeren and grandchilderen. Love your little brother, John

John McGraw said...

Cheryl I love you and have been praying for God to take your pain away. Please keep your faith, and know that we don't always know what Gods plan is. Have faith that it is for the best for everyone. I am still trying to find the what leasen we all are supost to learn from this, I will keep looking and praying. May God bless you and your childeren and grandchilderen. Love your little brother, John

John McGraw said...

Cheryl I love you and have been praying for God to take your pain away. Please keep your faith, and know that we don't always know what Gods plan is. Have faith that it is for the best for everyone. I am still trying to find the what leasen we all are supost to learn from this, I will keep looking and praying. May God bless you and your childeren and grandchilderen. Love your little brother, John

John McGraw said...

Cheryl I love you and have been praying for God to take your pain away. Please keep your faith, and know that we don't always know what Gods plan is. Have faith that it is for the best for everyone. I am still trying to find the what leasen we all are supost to learn from this, I will keep looking and praying. May God bless you and your childeren and grandchilderen. Love your little brother, John

John McGraw said...

Cheryl I love you and have been praying for God to take your pain away. Please keep your faith, and know that we don't always know what Gods plan is. Have faith that it is for the best for everyone. I am still trying to find the what leasen we all are supost to learn from this, I will keep looking and praying. May God bless you and your childeren and grandchilderen. Love your little brother, John

Anonymous said...

Thank you sooo much for putting this together as I don't know what to say or what to do so I just keep showing up but I want you to spend as much time as you can with your mom so this is great. You like your mother are awesome..hugs Deb

Anonymous said...

Ok now you cheryl, If I had to sum up all that I think and feel for you I would be writing a book so I am just going to say "YOU MATTERED" sounds simple but not really it is actually huge. You always got me, a lot of people don't but you did and I am sooo very blessed to have had you in my life. You know losing Phil and now you in such a short amount of time is going to test me to the ever lovin limits so please know that I will try to make you proud as I know what I will be in for the next time we meet and we WILL be together again..but just for a little while keep an eye on me like you always have cuz I am quite sure I am still going to need your strength to get me through this one...Thanks Cheryl for everything I am truly blessed for having you be a part of my life and that will never change.Love and hugs to you and your family...Your friend Deb

Anonymous said...

I don't know you dear Cheryl, but you must be a wonderful person to have so many people in your life who adore you. My prayer is that you have peace and comfort and no more pain and peace to your family and friends also, and that you know you will all see each other again soon in heaven. Say hello to my sweet sister Carol when you get there.

Anonymous said...

Cheryl and the entire family continue to be in our prayers every day. Cheryl Touched my life in such a positive way, and I feel so blessed to know her.

God's speed - God bless.


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